Afterplay

Afterplay is now my favorite part of sex.

It used to be foreplay in my teens. All the kinkiness and togetherness and the undressing of all the layers of blouses, skirts, bra and knickers. T-shirts, Jeans boxers. The holding a girl down, telling her what you are going to do, teasing her by kissing thighs and navel, the pre-sex-blow job. Don't get me wrong, I love all that anticipation and filthiness, it just isn't my favourite part anymore.

I went through a long phase of the actual sex being my favourite. The first time you feel that warmth and wetness engulfing your cock is the best feeling in the world physically. Emotionally too, that a girl likes you enough to let you do this to her. (I know girls like sex as much as we do but I have a theory, that girls, historically have more to lose from sex than men. Their brains are probably evolutionarily hardwired to be careful with sex. Now it is different but before condoms and - the best invention ever - the pill women had it pretty hard. It was her body that went through a pregnancy for 9 months and then had to push the little critter out. Women used to die in childbirth much more frequently than they do today making sex potentially lethal for them, men on the other hand, could do the deed, sew their seed and then nip of to the dino-pub for a pint and never come back.) It is such a great feeling to be that close to a girl that you are literally bonded together, actually being inside her and part of her. Looking into her eyes and kissing and talking dirty.

Which brings me to the inspiration for writing this post.

Afterplay

Afterplay is anything that happens in the 20 minutes or so after you cum. (After 20 minutes it will probably morph into foreplay again) For me this usually entails falling down onto the bed with my girl and usually saying something nice 'Wow' 'That was amazing' or 'pheeeew' and then kind of lying on my back with girl cuddling into me and us both drifting in and out of a orgasm induced shallow sleep. Its the nakedness that I like, body on body, breasts against chest, her warm smooth legs draped over mine, both our hands stroking each other, the dry kiss that tastes of sex as you have both been down on each other. This is now my favourite part, I dont know why and I realise I am coming of as a bit of a pansy but next time you have sex, dont neglect it, try and enjoy it consciously and be in love for just 20 minutes. There, thats why I like it, you are in love for 20 minutes. Even if you have just met, Myself and the girl (ahem, usually) act like we are in love for just that small amount of time. It is a mini relationship. A mini true love with someone you have just met or have being with a while but forgotten how to do it.

Just make sure you dont actually say them three words unless you feel it outside of them special rule-breaking 20 minutes of afterplay.